Pre Baby Checklist: Essential To-Do List Before Baby Arrives

Welcoming a baby is one of life’s most beautiful experiences—but the preparation can be overwhelming! That’s why at First Time Mom, we’ve created the ultimate pre baby checklist to help you stay organized and confident before your little one arrives. From nursery must-haves to practical to-do’s, this guide has it all.

Why a Pre Baby Checklist Matters

Every expecting parent wonders what they really need to do before the baby comes. Creating a to do list before baby helps reduce stress and ensures you don’t miss any essentials—especially because babies have a habit of showing up early! Here’s our curated, mom-approved checklist categorized by must-haves, good-to-haves, and what you can skip.


Must-Haves: Prepare at Least a Month in Advance

Set Up the Nursery

  • Crib or bassinet with a firm mattress

  • Changing table or diaper station with wipes, creams, and diapers

  • Rocking chair or comfortable seating

  • Clothes organized by size (just a few onesies, PJs, and footies!)

  • Baby monitor

Safety Tip: Keep the crib bare—no pillows, blankets, or toys.

Pack Your Hospital Bag

Pack this by the 36th week! Include:

  • Important documents (ID, insurance card, birth plan)

  • Loose, comfortable clothes for after delivery

  • Nursing PJs (with front buttons)

  • Toiletries

  • Snacks and drinks (think liquid foods like broth if you’re planning for an epidural)

  • A water bottle with a bendable straw

  • Phone and charger

  • Baby’s going-home outfit

  • Postpartum recovery essentials (check if the hospital provides these)

Install the Car Seat

Make sure it’s installed correctly! Many fire stations or hospitals offer free installation checks.

Choose a Pediatrician

Find and register with a pediatrician before delivery. In places like San Francisco, this is essential to do early, as the first checkup happens within days of birth.

Plan for Childcare

If you’re returning to work, start exploring daycare or nanny options now—especially since many facilities have waitlists.

Set Up Health Insurance

Add your baby to your plan right after birth to ensure coverage from day one.

Good-to-Haves: Add Comfort & Support

  • Night doula or postpartum help: Having extra hands during nighttime feeds can be a lifesaver.

  • Discuss responsibilities with your partner ahead of time to manage expectations and ensure rest.

  • Stock up your fridge with easy meals and snacks for the early days.

  • Take childbirth classes: Many hospitals offer free classes to help prepare mentally and physically.

  • Create a birth plan and discuss it with your provider.

Tip from First Time Mom: Take the epidural! I labored for six hours before getting it, and once I did, I finally smiled again!

What You Don’t Need Right Away

Don’t Overbuy Clothes

Babies grow fast—stick to the basics in newborn and 0–3 sizes.

Don’t Ignore Mental Health

Learn the signs of postpartum depression and anxiety. Having awareness and support in place is essential. I developed PPA after weaning—knowing it could happen helped me cope.

Don’t Forget Self-Care

Sleep, rest, and recharge while you still can!

No Rush on Childproofing

This can wait until your baby is more mobile, usually around 6 months and up.

Skip Stockpiling Formula

You might need to try a few brands before finding one your baby accepts—buy small at first.

Don’t Overcook

Unless you have no support, you don’t need to exhaust yourself prepping meals. Use delivery, ask for help, or keep it simple.

Hold Off on Buying a Snoo

Wait to see if your baby actually needs it. Some sleep well without it. I almost bought one right away but waited—and glad I did!

Final Thoughts from First Time Mom

Preparing for a baby isn’t just about diapers and clothes—it’s about you too. Our pre baby checklist is designed to make sure you’re not just ready for the baby, but also supported in your journey into motherhood. At First Time Mom, we’re here to offer expert-backed guidance, practical tips, and real stories from moms who’ve been exactly where you are.

Take a deep breath, check off each task, and enjoy these precious last moments before your baby arrives. You’ve got this, mama. 💪

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